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This image
brought a flood of memories to my mind.
We had a "landing" in front of our front door, measuring about 10 foot
by 12 foot, with bricks layed in a standard pattern, surrounded by a
buttress of concrete, perhaps 6 or 8 inches in depth, all the way
around. Two concrete steps led down to the front sidewalk, which led
straight away from the house, to intersect with the public sidewalk
separating public parkway from private yard.
This was much the same throughout our neighborhood, in the Northwest
quadrant of Highwood.
In the Summertime, the landing more than earned its keep, as a
neighborhood rallying point for the exchange of gossip, or just to pass
the time, on a warm and humid evening, and a bit of respite outside of
the house, where one might catch a sudden breeze of cooler air, while
sipping on an ice-cold glass of homemade lemonade.
Some mainstays on the landing during the Summer were the chairs... There
was a metal lawn chair that had to be dismantled every few years (only
six sets of nuts and bolts held it together), wire-brushed to remove the
rusty bits, sanded smooth, and then painted whatever enamel paint colors
could be found in the basement — mostly, I remember the seat and back
were bright red, and the arms were white; this was "Grandma's chair,"
and if someone was sitting in it when she came out fo the house, as a
deference to her, that person was expected to vacate the chair
immediately in her favor. Other chairs were a motley assembly of
catch-as-catch-can outdoor furniture: one or two canvas-backed folding
sling-type beach chairs (the kind that would immediately collapse and
capture you, if you tried to sit in it without the little notches lined
up "just right"), and an occasional Adirondack chair that one of the
neighbors might have dragged over, for an extended visit, and left
behind...
You get the idea.
For almost all of my recollections of my younger years, my Grandmother
and Mother would sit on that landing every summer evening, saying hello
to our neighbors as they walked past, for a post-dinner walk ("good for
the digestion" some would say). More often than not, the neighbors would
pause for a few minutes or longer, as needed, to have a glass of that
lemonade, and exchange the household news, often staying until almost
dark, just "chatting," or sometimes, just sitting quietly together,
nodding in agreement to unspoken conversations.
Sometimes we youngsters would be sent away, to "play," while the adults
spoke in hushed tones — no doubt discussing which neighborhood kid got
arrested, and for what; or, whose daughter was caught kissing whose son,
behind whose garage; or, which of us little angels was doing well (or
more likely, poorly) in school.
When I close my eyes, sounds of that time also come rushing back... a
telephone ringing at someone's house — we infrequently expected good
news to come by telephone, so no one ever made a mad dash to answer one
when it was ringing, except Shiela, next door, who changed boyfriends
more frequently than some of us changed our jeans. But, she was a few
years older than the rest of us, and we didn't understand just how
imortant those phone calls might be.
I also hear the squeals of delight as one or two of us were making a
sudden rush for that big tree in front of Barry and Timmy's house that
served as "home" for our nightly pursuits of a robust challenge of "hide
and seek." Sometimes, five or six kids would suddenly burst forth from
their hiding places behind a shrub, or behind a parked car, or under
someone's front porch... racing toward that tree from every imaginable
angle at the same instant... pity the poor person who was "it," because
he or she didn't stand a chance against such seemingly coordinated
attacks.
We were close enough to the Highwood ball field that we could easily
hear the crowd noises and cheering from an evening's Pony League game,
and if we were up for the three-minute run, we could get over there in
time to see what was causing all the excitement.
Perhaps I should stop now, before I start remembering the neighborhood
smells, and where you could walk to smell the fresh tomato sauces being
simmered in a nearby kitchen, or those backyard barbeques (charcoal, of
course) with sizzling steaks or ribs, or for us novices, hamburgers and
hot dogs... At my house, or the homes of my fairly close-knit relatives,
you would be more likely to smell potato pancakes, fresh sauerkraut and
sausages, slowly reaching the point of "just right" on that old stove.
So long ago, it often doesn't even seem real any more. |
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